1 Keep a low profile in daily life. Do not flaunt wealth or live too extravagantly, and avoid making others envious. Fewer people will then try to harm you.
2 Help with emergencies, not ongoing poverty. If someone truly needs money urgently, especially to save a life, you can lend it.
3 When lending money, be prepared for it never to be repaid. This makes for a healthier outlook and keeps you from wearing yourself down over late or missing repayments.
4 Do not bring up repayment. The more you mention it, the more uncomfortable they feel. Put yourself in their shoes: if someone helped you and you were grateful, but they constantly reminded you of that help, would you not find it annoying?
5 Above all, find more ways to earn money yourself and help relatives and friends around you earn more, creating a positive, forward-looking atmosphere around you.

These are my personal views. What do you think? Feel free to add your thoughts in the comments.
Finally, I wish everyone more earnings in the new year~
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